In today’s society, it is difficult to find a man who has not been in a relationship before. In fact, statistically speaking, most adult males have had at least a couple of serious girlfriends or a wife by the time they reach 35 years old.
This doesn’t mean that finding your perfect match will be impossible; but instead of going about things blindly and hoping for the best, you should prepare yourself with some solid strategies for snagging a guy. This article will provide you with 9 tips on how to win his heart.
Find out his hobbies and interests
Make sure that he has at least one hobby or interest that is similar to yours so that when it comes time to talk about something on your date, you’ll have plenty of things in common on which to base the conversation. If not, no worries – just ask him questions about himself until he finds out what ticks his fancy, and then try again with another interest of yours later on down the road. It’s always worth it if this might be “the one.”
There are plenty of hobbies out there and you are bound to find one that you both enjoy. Just remember to keep things varied and interesting so that you don’t bore him!
Don’t call too often or text all of the time
If you take this approach, chances are he’ll think that your interest in him is superficial. Instead, make sure that your phone does not beep every five minutes and that you do not call him every night before he goes to sleep. He’ll see this as clinginess, which will make him pull away from you. Instead, try to keep your calls and messages balanced and let him call you sometimes too. You should send him occasional text messages to make him think about you and miss you. You will feel in control and he’ll feel that you respect his space and that you’re not desperate for him. This will eventually play in your favor. When the time comes, he’ll have no trouble being with you because of how ‘unattainable’ you were to him before.
Be his friend to start with
You don’t have to jump into the deep end of the pool head first just because you want him! Take it easy and be friendly, fun, and flirty – the whole nine yards. Try to recognize what he wants in a woman and then be that. If he likes the outdoors, plan an outdoor excursion to his favorite spot, if he’s into technology, check out the latest gadgets together, if he loves movies try watching one. Over time, you’ll find that you’ve become more than just friends and before he knows it, there’s a spark.
Watch his actions and learn how to read them
In today’s society, most people have mastered the art of being bad listeners when it comes time for meaningful conversation. However, if you pay attention, he will reveal what he likes and what he doesn’t about you, as well as give clues as to what you can do to make him like you more. If he’s paying attention and liking what he sees and hears, he’ll let his actions speak louder than words ever could!
Don’t play too hard to get
If he likes you, let him know it. You don’t have to reignite the fire or go out of your way to do so – just act normal and listen if he talks about something that interests you. Chances are, when he finds out how interesting you are, his feelings will grow for you even more. Playing hard to get is something that might have worked years ago, but it’s an old trick these days. If you want him to like you, make it easy for him to do so!
Don’t be critical of him or his faults
It’s important that you don’t line up the perfect relationship in your head before even knowing if he is interested in you, but it is okay to notice things about him and let him know they might need some work. Just take care not to be too critical over things that are insignificant. If you want him to like you, recognize the good in him even if he doesn’t.
Be genuine with your feelings
Don’t be afraid to show affection for this person in front of everyone else because no matter what people say about “love is blind” and how it makes everything better, not everyone will agree with your relationship. If you’re happy when you’re with him, don’t be afraid to show the world that.
Furthermore, ignoring the existence of a person in your life will only make them feel unwanted; therefore, by you making yourself present to him and expressing how much you like him, he’ll start to like you back.
Give him space
Allowing the guy you like to have some space doesn’t necessarily mean that he does not feel the same way about you. It may just mean that he needs time to think about how to say what’s on his mind or he knows that being clingy will only turn you off.
If the two of you are meant for each other then your love will conquer all no matter how far apart you may be from each other. Distance is just a hurdle that could eventually build the strength of your relationship if you learn to remain strong and patient. You never know, he might actually miss you more because he’s going through the same thing.
Keep your priorities in order!
Don’t spend time with your man if it means that you’re going to fail a class, forget to go to work, or otherwise hurt yourself in some way. He wants you to be happy and healthy above all else because then he knows you’ll be able to give him your full attention when it really matters. This is a quality that most men value very highly in women who are interested in.
It’s important to remember that if you want your guy to like you, it is essential that he can feel comfortable and at ease with the person he likes. If they’re not feeling good about themselves then chances are high that their opinion of you will be unfavorable as well. We hope these 8 tips on how to win a man’s heart were helpful. We wish you all the best in finding someone who appreciates everything there is about you!